'A Fathers Grief' It must be very difficult to be a man in grief since 'men dont cry' and 'men are strong' no tears can bring relief It must be very difficult to stand up to the test, and feild the calls and visitors so she can get some rest. They always ask if shes alright and what shes going through, but seldom take his hand and ask 'my friend, but how are you?' He hears her crying in the night and thinks his heart will break, he dries her tears and comforts her but 'stays strong' for her sake. It must be very difficult to start each day anew, and try not to be so brave- HE LOST HIS BABY TOO.